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This Crazy Little Thing Called Love

April 5, 2018
Danielle Charles at Melanated 2018

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” I saw this quote recently and it made me chuckle. It was used in reference to romantic love. I am yet to be able to vouch for that (hahaha). But what if I told you I…

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All was fair in Love and…Gambling? My Stint with Addiction

March 1, 2018

On occasion, I am asked, how is it that I am able to be so laid back about the possibility of being single for the rest of my life. Considering the stigmatization that accompanies those who fall outside the experience of romantic love, I guess I can understand the apprehension. It’s not that I am closed to the option of meeting someone and doing the…

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My Single Life vs The Happily Ever After

February 14, 2018

Listening to or reading social posts made by friends, acquaintances and strangers as they express their joy of being in relationships, finding the one or having gotten married, usually puts me in a reflective mood. Their descriptions usually include words and phrases such as – love of my life, the one, soul mate, the best thing that’s happened to me and I’m the happiest I’ve…

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Danielle Charles

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